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I need a married mom's opinion NOW, please...? Scenario:
Your husband TOLD you he was going to go drop his friends off at a bar or club or whatever. He was supposed to drop them off, go to a friends house and play a game, pick them up, and come home. He promises up and down that he was NOT going to go into the club.
He leaves around 7 PM. Stops by once to drop something off for two or three minutes.
He doesn't come up till 4:15 AM.
With a stamp on his hand. Says he went in the club to pick up his friend. All his friends are single, and if they are married, they're swingers. But he doesn't hang out with the swingers.
Do you believe him or not?
Extra info: For the past few months ever since you had your baby, he has been going out every single weekend a lot of times to the bar with his single friends- NOT YOU, and feels that you should be okay with that and if you're not then it's because you have extremely low self esteem and that's your problem, not his.
I am so angry and upset I'm shaking and i feel sick to my stomach, I don't know how to feel. Of course, my feelings don't matter because I don't ******* WORK. I'm just a FRICKEN STAY AT HOME MOM. | | This is the same thing that was going on with my hubby and me. Almost the exact same thing! Except he would go out every week to a friend's house with his brothers and their friends. Now I am a single mother. Scared, and oh so horny, but I feel a lot better. I think you would too. | I just had a 3 way with the hottest girl I have ever met in person.? but I'm feeling a little weird about the whole thing. I can't really sleep since I got home a hour and half ago. Now please don't judge me, and I'm only saying this here cause I think it's safer then telling one of my friends. But to make a long story short, I was at a club, a lot of swingers frequent this club.
I met a couple and we got to talking, and I was mostly talking to the female, but things progressed and I ended up going to their hotel. I made it clear I was not gay and would not par take in any kind of *** banging or anything weird like that. But I did say, and I don't know why I did, I mean that girl was beautiful, with blown hair blown eyes, amazing rack. But I was told it was the only thing that could get her hot and ready, and was for her boyfriend to blow me before I had sex with her. I did it, I mean I let him.
I feel a little sick about it now, but you have to understand this girl was so ******* hot, and I thought I'd never have a chance to bag something so smokin again. At first I thought it was worth what I went through at the start, but then while I was at it and the boyfriend was only watching, I felt his hand on my *** he was looking over my shoulder and kind of pushing my *** forward towards her. I freaked out and stopped holding back and quickly came. I thanked them and said my goodbyes in a hurry with a sickening feeling in my stomach. Now I know I'm not gay, and I understand that some might think what I went through was a little bisexual, but it was not to me. Anyways, I was just wondering if anyone here was in my same situation, would you do that same thing?
Be kind if you can.
James | | I never would have lt it go that far to begin with. Man that is sick. | What are normal brother sister relationships supposed to be like? I ******* hate my sister and always have done, i think she lives in a fantasy world and shes a massive mood swinger, shes also a bit delussional in my opinion because shes thinks shes better than everyone, shes unsociable, unkind and she seems to think I need to earn her trust. she seems to think that I owe her someting in life like respect in the serious kind and it ******* drives me crazy, shes holds everything small over my head like she expects me to owe her something because she invited me to dinner or something stupid like that I feel she is trying to own me like an animal. I don't just dislike her I actively hate her and when she comes near me I cringe with the aggression and want to slap her silly. is that normal. what are others like with brother sister relationships? a detailed answer appreciated. | | slap her in the face and let her know that you ain´t nobody´s animal. make her respect you buddy | I am so lost, my life is a big mess!? I'm 24, live at home and haven't been going to college classes for 3 weeks or so b/c I'm tired of my major (biology). For these 3 weeks i've literally been sleeping, trying to hookup for sex on craigslist or a phone chatline I use, and trying to convince my parents that I'm still going to class. I've had depression, OCD, anxiety, self-esteem and confidence issues, multitasking issues, motivational issues, jealousy, etc. for years now. Ever since 13 or 14 when I was in 8th grade I've had depression and OCD and anxiety issues. I started college in fall of 05' and the first two years were okay but everything went down hill starting in 08'. I never transitioned into college very well and still don't like it. A huge problem I developed after high school was this obsession with porn and sex. For the past two years or so I've had problems trying to control my habit of having sex with strangers and prostitutes. Porn led me to people. I've never had a problem with drugs or alcohol. Sex has been my crutch and my drug to cope with life. Seeing sex scenes in a movie or a beautiful girl anywhere lowers my self-esteem, makes me start to obsess about what I just saw and to try to convince myself that I am good enough to be the guy with that girl. Sex/porn makes me second guess my self-worth and creates pain and forces me to numb that pain with more sex/porn. And I'm obsessed with trying to score the hottest chick all the time when I haven't even really had sex with any hot girls. Anyway, I really am considering becoming a porn star b/c I hate 9-5 jobs and I thought that it would give me the opportunity to fulfill this quota of ******* a certain number of hot girls so I can get it out of my system. It's like I can't move on with my life until I convince myself that I've ****** a certain number of hot girls and built up my pride and self-esteem enough to be happy with myself. If not porn I've thought about getting a swinger girlfriend so I wouldn't be limited to just her, or an open relationship. I've never had a girlfriend so I'm probably just saying all this b/c I haven't felt what a monogomous relationship feels like. Among my sex problem I admit that I haven't grown up and am still being titty fed by my parents. Everything has been handed to me my whole life and I never grew up! I don't know why I've been having all these problems all these years. I've only had 2 real jobs my whole life and neither of them were even a year long. I've only been full time to school in the first 2 years of college. Since then I've been taking semesters off and when I do go I only take 1 or 2 classes b/c I'm scared to go full time. I only went full time those 2 years b/c I was forced to b/c of scholarships. Another problem I have. If someone doesn't force me or push me to do something I can't do it on my own. Like with my Eagle Scout award. I'm extremely lazy and scared to face the world. I don't even brush my teeth on a regular basis b/c I'm so depressed all the time. I hoard stuff (but it's not too bad), love to stall and procrastinate, don't really like my friends that I hang out with b/c all we do is play board games/video games and I don't even like some of the games we play. I'm an attractive guy (not a model) but I'm scared to live life b/c I don't know how to live it. My whole life I've asked people questions about everything b/c I always had a hard time figuring stuff out on my own. I've thought about joining the military but I'm not sure it's a good idea for me. I have a fragile personality and am pessimistic about everything. I was raised a Catholic but I don't know if I ever really believed in God my whole life! I think I told myself and everyone else that I did my whole life but recently I've been thinking that maybe I never really did. I'm becoming a loser but don't have the strength or desire to fight through it. Every possible facet of my life has a problem to it. I don't know what I'm going to do with my life. My dreams involve myself running away from life and slipping away and of dying, etc. Why do I have all these problems but everyone around me my age that I see doesn't? I'd like to move out but don't want to live alone and don't know that I even can. I don't have any privacy in my house. My mom walks in w/o knocking all the time. The other night she walked in on a guy giving me a ********. I'm not gay but I use them to get to women. He said he had some female friends but would only show them my pics if i let him blow me. And this guy has a girlfriend too even though he really doesn't like girls. What is the root cause of all these problems? I've been to therapists for sex and my other problems and been on countless antidepressants that don&# | | I feel like I have a lot of the same problems you have. I used to have tons of friends to lean on and party with, then alot of **** happened and I've become isolated. I have low self esteem, and I have problems with sex. If you want you can email me at katiej104@yahoo.com I feel we have a lot in common. | I am so lost, my life is a big mess!? I'm 24, live at home and haven't been going to college classes for 3 weeks or so b/c I'm tired of my major (biology). For these 3 weeks i've literally been sleeping, trying to hookup for sex on craigslist or a phone chatline I use, and trying to convince my parents that I'm still going to class. I've had depression, OCD, anxiety, self-esteem and confidence issues, multitasking issues, motivational issues, jealousy, etc. for years now. Ever since 13 or 14 when I was in 8th grade I've had depression and OCD and anxiety issues. I started college in fall of 05' and the first two years were okay but everything went down hill starting in 08'. I never transitioned into college very well and still don't like it. A huge problem I developed after high school was this obsession with porn and sex. For the past two years or so I've had problems trying to control my habit of having sex with strangers and prostitutes. Porn led me to people. I've never had a problem with drugs or alcohol. Sex has been my crutch and my drug to cope with life. Seeing sex scenes in a movie or a beautiful girl anywhere lowers my self-esteem, makes me start to obsess about what I just saw and to try to convince myself that I am good enough to be the guy with that girl. Sex/porn makes me second guess my self-worth and creates pain and forces me to numb that pain with more sex/porn. And I'm obsessed with trying to score the hottest chick all the time when I haven't even really had sex with any hot girls. Anyway, I really am considering becoming a porn star b/c I hate 9-5 jobs and I thought that it would give me the opportunity to fulfill this quota of ******* a certain number of hot girls so I can get it out of my system. It's like I can't move on with my life until I convince myself that I've ****** a certain number of hot girls and built up my pride and self-esteem enough to be happy with myself. If not porn I've thought about getting a swinger girlfriend so I wouldn't be limited to just her, or an open relationship. I've never had a girlfriend so I'm probably just saying all this b/c I haven't felt what a monogomous relationship feels like. Among my sex problem I admit that I haven't grown up and am still being titty fed by my parents. Everything has been handed to me my whole life and I never grew up! I don't know why I've been having all these problems all these years. I've only had 2 real jobs my whole life and neither of them were even a year long. I've only been full time to school in the first 2 years of college. Since then I've been taking semesters off and when I do go I only take 1 or 2 classes b/c I'm scared to go full time. I only went full time those 2 years b/c I was forced to b/c of scholarships. Another problem I have. If someone doesn't force me or push me to do something I can't do it on my own. Like with my Eagle Scout award. I'm extremely lazy and scared to face the world. I don't even brush my teeth on a regular basis b/c I'm so depressed all the time. I hoard stuff (but it's not too bad), love to stall and procrastinate, don't really like my friends that I hang out with b/c all we do is play board games/video games and I don't even like some of the games we play. I'm an attractive guy (not a model) but I'm scared to live life b/c I don't know how to live it. My whole life I've asked people questions about everything b/c I always had a hard time figuring stuff out on my own. I've thought about joining the military but I'm not sure it's a good idea for me. I have a fragile personality and am pessimistic about everything. I was raised a Catholic but I don't know if I ever really believed in God my whole life! I think I told myself and everyone else that I did my whole life but recently I've been thinking that maybe I never really did. I'm becoming a loser but don't have the strength or desire to fight through it. Every possible facet of my life has a problem to it. I don't know what I'm going to do with my life. My dreams involve myself running away from life and slipping away and of dying, etc. Why do I have all these problems but everyone around me my age that I see doesn't? I'd like to move out but don't want to live alone and don't know that I even can. I don't have any privacy in my house. My mom walks in w/o knocking all the time. The other night she walked in on a guy giving me a ********. I'm not gay but I use them to get to women. He said he had some female friends but would only show them my pics if i let him blow me. And this guy has a girlfriend too even though he really doesn't like girls. What is the root cause of all these problems? I've been to therapists for sex and my other problems and been on countless antidepressants that don&# | | your a institutionalized man, because you've mainly been in school all your life, your not used to doing anything without someone telling you to. You need someone to push you to do things, till your ready to sustain a life on your own. I too am having almost all the same problems your having. I graduated a year ago. I don't know what to do with my life, and I too need some guidance. I actually sat down with my parents the other day and explained to them my problems. I had to tell my parents that I need to be pushed harder, and told them that they need to motivate me. You should sit down with your parents and explain to them that you need some guidance. |
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