Is this an orgasm or not quite? serious question... please don't post anything dumb...
Okay.. so i often masturbate to videos i like... but i never "go in" or anything.. just rub back and forth (through my underwear)
when i hit this climax of good feeling, my leg muscles tense, my eyes wanna close and my body jerks around a lot, like muscle spasms.. but theres no screaming or moaning and i don't feel it's as pleasurable as people describe.. it only lasts for a second also... is this an orgasm, or am i just "getting there"? |
Sounds like your close anyways...do what feels right...
Do not respond to the person leaving a phone number. There leaving it on other questions too. Could be a pervert or something... |
Sex: Whats the difference between and Orgasm and....? Ejaculation.
I've never really thought about this. I was reading an article about a woman whos boyfriend can't get her to acheive orgasm, even though it feels nice and she ejaculates.
And it made me think, that my girlfriend has never been to the point where she can't walk after sex or anything ?
And shes never screaming like in all he videos of sex.
It fells nice to her and after i stimulate her clitorous, she does ejaculate, but list lasts a few times and then shes bored of it.
Is and Orgasm and Ejaculation two diferent things ?
Wikipedia suggests that an Orgasm is when all the Muscles in the Pelvic Region contract or something and that just sounds like it should be a lot more pleasurable than what i see.
Someone explain please, can anyone suggest what i could be doing wrong ? |
Many women has psychological and physical problems for not achieving orgasm. May be same woman will have orgasm with another man if she is psychlogically contended with that man. Female sexuality is far different than male. Ejaculation for male is very simple and he can achieve that with even ugliest woman on earth. While a female needs to accept the man whole heartedly, emotionally and psychologically before she can attain highest degree of orgasm. However, medical records say that many women can not attain orgasm for their biological and psychological makeup no matter who the man is!
If she does not have any of the problems that I mentioned, you really need to start from informal gossiping, then sexual gossip, then caressing from head to toe before you attempt to enter her. Make sure, she starts to smell sexy (she will start relasing her sex hormones from all over her body), her nipples will be hard, vagina will be swollen and wet.
Then enter her gently, ensure full body contact with her, continue kissing her on her neck and other vulnerable places as you continue pumping. I bet she will achieve her orgasm to the best. Assure her that she had been a successful sex player. This will bring her new confidence in the future.
Yes, you are right about pelvic contraction at the point of orgasm. You will feel a sudden contraction and firm grip on your manhood and then gradually feel relaxed pressure as she subsides. This is what is orgasm. Screaming during sex is natural in female (just prior to achieving orgasm, but not the extent that porno videos reflect).
I think this has answered your question. |
I need sex advice please? This is a really strange question...
My boyfriend and I used to have AMAZING screaming orgasm sex using toys, games, videos etc. Until about a month ago when he moved out of his studio temporarity into a friend's apartment because he's moving to colorado. Sex since then it has been quiet i-dont-want-to disturb-anyone sex. And i dont really like the change.
When he moves to colorado (away from me in LA) he is going to be living in a house with 3 of his cousins where i am assuming we'll have to have the same sex that we are in this apartment.
Is there even an answer to this question or am i going to have to deal with it? I want ideas! :D |
Whoo.. I know what you mean. My wife and I used to make the neighbors check to see if we were ok! Now...well... have guys... sigh. But you know what? We plan regular "away weekends". We found a collection of hotels in our area, and we pick one once a month, leave the guys at a sitter and pack up the sex toys!
One hotel, we know so well we get the same room every time - it's a corner suite, with a jacuzzi tub. Ever see that CSI episode where Grissom was describeing how corner suites are great for murders because with neighbors on only one side, it less chance of anyone hearing screams? Same idea! With a suite, use may well have a entire room as a sound breaker for the one room nest to you.
We have ourselves loud screaming orgasms all weekend, and when its over... the quiet sex is spicier withthe memories of us lighting the hotel up! |
Orgasm denial - Women in control? You know I´ve watched on internet on porn sites and special sites for it some videos where women have completely control over the man´s cock. They tease the cock by a handjob or ******* and they tie up a man and tease and laugh and gigling then, also with other girls, so a threesome or foursome. They let the man almost come several times and very often they walk away letting the man begging for an orgasm, which they don´t give him.
Sometimes they let him come and walk immediately away.
Like in that video I watched with a white and black girl and they both let the man come (he was tied up) and the black girl rubbed strong over his penis head when he had come and then it´s really sensitive and he screamed a lot. She said, while she laughed a lot: Do you like that?
So my question is who has done such things to tease your boyfriend or husband to the utmost?! |
| There are two sorts of sexual fetish: alpha and beta. Alpha fetishes are for men who want to stay in control of their women in the bedroom. Beta fetishes are for men who would rather watch on the sidelines. Women will always tease a beta and will always please an alpha. So, make your pick. |
My first time smoking weed was this normal? It was my first time getting high. Smoked bout .8 grams of sour diesel and I started seeing a skeliton screaming with blue horns other halusinations and my ears felt like they were having an orgasm and I was hearing loud wind blowing sounds I was sweating and on verge of passing out. Next day(today) I was feeling slow when talking and couldent play video game for my life. Any advice? |
Weed is actually classified as a hallucinogen. So yes, this sounds normal. Normally though a person won't get to the point of experiencing hallucinations but if you smoke enough of it you will. I use to smoke a lot of weed. Now I don't since I am an EMT. That gave me a chance to learn about it and other drugs. A scary thing is that they can lace weed with other things. This is pretty rare, especially if you are around people you trust.
I think for the first time smoking weed you smoked too much! |
Preston and Steve Sound Clip Question(For people who listen to Preston and Steve)? Alright, well I might have missed the explanation for it, but I've always wanted to know where the "Screaming Orgasm Guy"(as titled in the free ringtones section) was from. My one friend said it 's from a porno where the guy is doin some old lady but he doesn't know where I can find it. Don't think of me as a creep but I just wanna laugh at the video. Can anyone help me out on this? |
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Serious answers: was this an orgasm? Ok, so I was almost laughing typing this but seriously, I want serious answers. lol. They say "you'll just know" if you had one, but I think this was just a mini one if anything. Here's what happened:
-muscles all over my body were extremely tense (they contracted)..and they were pretty much rigid
-legs and butt started shaking
-breathing sped up a LITTLE..but not like how you see it in movies
-I didn’t moan/scream like you see in movies or porn videos or anything, but I went :O 2 or 3 times (lmao)
-I didn’t exactly get a relaxation feeling, but I kept yawning afterwards..like a lot. I think it’s the most I’ve yawned in a short amount of time in my whole life lol
This was through masturbation btw. Don't know if that makes a difference or not. |
Yes that was on orgasm? Sometimes you'll have a mind blowing orgasm and some times you don't, it's all in the mod. Don't expect perfection every time that's all a fantasy.
Don't compare a normal orgasm to a movie orgasm, those girls are getting paid to act, noby will pay to see a regular orgasm. I'm sure some times the girls don't even like the guy their with, it's all show and a little blow. |
Possible to orgasm while just looking at a screen? I've never actually had sex. I dont know if this is an orgasm or not...because it feels really good but it's not scream-worthy. its like a build up and a release but it only happens for a few seconds. I can get it just from watching a video (not porn but something that turns me on) then my vagina will contract really fast but I'm not touching myself right after the build up. Also, I secrete slippery fluid during this...is this being turned on, or an orgasm?
I always get the urge to do it when I am really stressed or short on time...figures! |
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Adult video question? A few adult video's i've seen lately shows girls about to orgasm slide themselves off his penis then they orgasm but its like they wee like projectile and her hips are move and they are screaming from pleasure... now the girl is actually ejaculating (coming) herself isn't she? and obviously her hips are still going thru the motions of having sex... i was just wondering if there is anyone out there who has experienced that themself and is it possible for any girl to have orgasms like that or just the fact that you have a higher intensity then just the normal orgasm? |
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What should I do about my sister? My sister is REALLY freaking me out. I'm 14, she's 16. Her BF lives in Tennessee and we dont, so she video chats with him on skype. My step mom and I have caught her a few times getting naked if front of the camera! I just heard her scream a sorta hugh pitched eep and i think it was an orgasm! OMFG. What do I do? help me, she's never done anything like this! What should i do?! |
This is a really scary situation. But first you need to calm down.
Now, first you need to talk about this to your step mom, and your dad. Something does need to be done about this.
Plus if her boy friend is catching her naked, then this is really serious.
But it would be best to keep her away from her "boy friend."
But remember to talk to your parents about this.
But if she's doing this when he's over in Tennessee, chances are that when he use to live where you live, or visits and you guys aren't around, she's doing this in person . Or even something even more serious. |